I'm a guy, and here's the reality: if a woman wants to text for weeks before meeting, I assume she's not actually interested or she's using the app for validation. The whole point of dating apps is to meet people in real life. 3-5 days of messaging, then suggest a quick, low-pressure date (coffee, drink, walk in the park). If there's chemistry in person, great! If not, you haven't wasted weeks texting someone you have no in-person connection with.